How to Be a Better Partner
A practical path to show up with care, repair with honesty, and grow love through everyday actions
🗓 Your 5-Week Journey
(Seeing your patterns)
(Presence over fixing)
(Truth + care)
(Restoring trust)
(Small actions, lasting love)
✅ Each week: one skill, one practice, one step toward being the partner you want to be.
➤ You’re not aiming for perfection. You’re choosing presence — again and again.
What will you move through in this 5-week journey?
• Listen in a way that makes your partner feel truly seen
• Speak your truth — without pushing love away
• Repair after conflict — without shame or silence
• Grow as a partner — not just hope things improve
Course Outcomes
• Listen deeply — even when you disagree
• Express needs clearly — without blame or withdrawal
• Apologize in ways that restore trust — not just end tension
• Stay emotionally present — through stress, disappointment, and change
What I will learn?
- Notice when your reaction hurts more than helps
- Listen to understand not just to reply
- Express your needs without blame or silence
- Repair small ruptures before they become distance
- Show up as a partner who is present not perfect
Course Curriculum
Intro Peter Zonbloem
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Intro Peter Zonbloem
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Module 1: Understanding Yourself in Relationships
Understanding Yourself in Relationships
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Module 1: Understanding Yourself in Relationships
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Module 1.1: Recognizing and managing emotions in relationships
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Module 1.2 Effective verbal and non-verbal communication
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Module 1.3 Active listening techniques Draft Lesson
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Module 1.4 Expressing thoughts and feelings assertively
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Module 1.5 Empathy in relationships
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Module 1.6: Handling conflict and disagreement with emotional intelligence
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Module 1.7: Building emotional resilience
04:00
Module 2: Building a Strong Foundation
Trust is a fundamental and foundational element in the establishment and maintenance of a healthy relationship. It serves as the bedrock upon which intimacy, security, and mutual understanding are built. Here's an exploration of the critical role that trust plays in fostering a healthy relationship:
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Module 2: Building a Strong Foundation
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Module 2.1: Rebuilding trust after setbacks
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Module 2.2 Honesty and transparency
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Module 2.3 Identifying Personal Boundaries
01:35
Module 3 Communicating Personal Boundaries
1. Be Clear and Specific: When communicating boundaries, be clear and specific about what you are comfortable with and what you are not. Use concrete examples to illustrate your points and avoid vague or generalized statements.
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Communicating Personal Boundaries
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Module 3.1 Respecting partner’s boundaries
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Module 3.2: Connecting on a deeper emotional level
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Module 3.3: Fostering intimacy through shared experiences
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Module 3.4: Understanding the importance of physical connection
02:30
Module 4 Conflict Resolution and Problem-Solving
Normalizing conflict in relationships is the recognition and acceptance that disagreements and differing perspectives are natural and inevitable aspects of any partnership. It involves understanding that conflict, when managed constructively, can lead to growth, understanding, and ultimately strengthen the relationship. Normalizing conflict encourages open communication, allowing couples to address issues, express their needs, and work collaboratively to find solutions. It shifts the perspective from viewing conflict as a threat to recognizing it as an opportunity for learning and improvement within the relationship dynamic.
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Conflict Resolution and Problem-Solving
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Module 4.1 Avoiding destructive behaviors during conflicts
02:20
Module 5: Sustaining a Long-Term Partnership
Personal and relationship goals encompass the aspirations and objectives that individuals set for themselves and their partnerships. Personal goals relate to individual growth, development, and achievements, while relationship goals pertain to the mutual aspirations and milestones that couples aim to accomplish together.
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Sustaining a Long-Term Partnership
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Module 5.1 Expressing gratitude in daily life
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Module 5.2 Celebrating achievements, big and small
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Module 5.3 Cultivating a positive and appreciative mindset
02:50
Module 6: Bringing it All
Setting individual goals is a deeply personal endeavor where individuals define their unique aspirations and outline the steps required for achievement. These goals span various dimensions, including career advancement, personal development, health and wellness, and hobbies.
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Bringing it All
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Module 6.1 Implementing the lessons learned in the course
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Module 6.2 Reflecting on progress and making adjustments
03:15
Thank you from Peter
Dear Participants,
As we conclude this journey together, I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to each and every one of you. Your commitment to personal and relational growth has been inspiring, and your active participation in this course has contributed to a shared space of learning and transformation.
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Thank you from Peter
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Proficiency Evaluation: Assessing Your Course Mastery
Certainly! Here's a refined and diplomatic alternative:
Assessment of Course Mastery:
In order to gauge your comprehension of the course content and its practical application, we invite you to participate in the following assessment. This evaluation aims to reflect your understanding of the key concepts and principles covered throughout the course, providing valuable insights into the depth of your engagement and learning experience. Your thoughtful responses will contribute to a comprehensive overview of your mastery of the material.
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Quiz 1: Effective Communication Skills
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Quiz 2: Healthy Conflict Resolution
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Quiz 3: Understanding Empathy
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Quiz 4: Importance of Setting Boundaries
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Quiz 5: Cultivating a Positive Mindset
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Quiz 6: Rebuilding Trust After Setbacks
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Quiz 7: Emotional Resilience
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Quiz 8: Expressing Gratitude in Relationships
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Quiz 9: Balance Between Independence and Togetherness
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Quiz 10: Staying Engaged and Connected Over the Years
How to Be a Better Partner ” Case Study
Navigating Through Conflict with Emotional Intelligence.
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Navigating Through Conflict with Emotional Intelligence.
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Student Ratings & Reviews
Course by;
Peter Zonbloem
Relationship & Marriage Therapist, Instructor & Writer
Hi, I’m Peter.
I created this course to help you become the partner you want to be —
not through perfection, but through presence, honesty, and steady growth.
It offers:
• Structure — clear, repeatable tools,
• Guidance — drawn from real sessions, not theory,
• Steady accompaniment — so you can repair, connect,
and build love that lasts — one honest action at a time.
Love isn’t about never failing.
It’s about always returning — with care, honesty, and a willingness to grow.
Becoming a better partner isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s about transformation through honesty,
structure in daily actions,
and steady accompaniment — so growth feels possible,
supported by community and real motivation.
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LevelAll Levels
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Total Enrolled2
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Duration1 hour 20 minutes
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Last UpdatedDecember 5, 2025
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CertificateCertificate of completion
Material Includes
- Video lessons
- Interactive worksheets
- Practical exercises
- Guided reflection prompts
- Real-life case studies
- Certificate of completion
Requirements
- All you need is honesty about your part
- A willingness to practice, not just understand
- Ten minutes a day to reflect and try again
- Trust that small steps create real change
Target Audience
- People who love their partner but keep messing up
- Partners who want to do better but dont know how
- Anyone tired of the same fights and silent treatments
- Those who believe love is a verb not just a feeling
- Couples ready to grow not just stay together